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\"image\"<\/a>RETURN TO PEARL HARBOR Pt 1
\nI stared at the text\u2026 \u201cDo you want to do an Honor Flight to take a Pearl Harbor Survivor back to Pearl Harbor\u201d? I was somewhat confused. Yes, I am an Honor Flight nurse, but we take veterans to Washington D.C. to see their memorials. It\u2019s a VERY long day starting at 3am and ending near midnight and we keep going all day! Pearl Harbor can\u2019t be a day trip. So that would mean an overnight, right? \u00a0Hawaii? \u00a0Pearl Harbor? \u00a0A survivor? \u00a0After a few texts for clarification I was all in! The trip was scheduled and we were off to Hawaii. We landed to a surprise celebration in the Honolulu Airport welcoming Ed, a 96 year old survivor of the attack on Pearl Harbor. We traveled to Hickem Air Force Base to rest up for the Pearl Harbor tour the next day.<\/p>\n

I thought we were ready… Honor Flight Dayton was good prep… The veterans are always treated like celebrities in Washington. But those Honor Flight trips are a huge group of veterans. We were bringing just one! Ed and his Guardian and me, the nurse. We didn’t really know what to expect. We just knew it would be a very emotionally charged and potentially healing experience for him. We also knew, as empathic as we both were, it would be very emotional for us to witness.<\/p>\n

Ed had been assigned to the original USS Preble<\/strong>. \u00a0It was in dry dock that day. \u00a0It wasn’t with the other US ships that were bombed. \u00a0Ed remembers it was a Sunday morning. \u00a0They were supposed to be able to sleep in that day. \u00a0And that’s what he was doing. \u00a0He was awakened by the explosions. \u00a0He remembers running outside the barracks to see what was happening and then realized the whole of Pearl Harbor was under attack. \u00a0He remembers the planes coming in so low you could see the faces of of the pilots. \u00a0And he remembers running for cover…. and finding none! \u00a0He says, “I’m not sure how any of us survived. \u00a0But here I am.”<\/p>\n

When we arrived at the parking lot we were greeted by security and given the special parking space<\/em><\/strong>. I touched Ed on the arm and pointed up to where the sign was. When Ed saw the sign he said, \u201cOOOH BOY!\u2026 (long pause) I don’t know if I can do this… Maybe I should just go back home!” He struggled to maintain his composure so we just sat there for a few moments. When he was ready, we left the vehicle and began a life altering journey.<\/p>\n

His Guardian, Terri, had planned the tour for today. But we couldn’t have known to plan for the response of the visitors at the museum today! As soon as we came up the sidewalk toward the entrance, Ed was an instant celebrity. People saw his hat and gasped! They would turn to their family or friends and point to Ed. You could see their emotions in their expressions. Some were honored to shake Ed\u2019s hand and express their gratitude for his history at Pearl Harbor. Others broke into tears and though they tried to express their feelings were often unable to utter a single word. Still others shared their stories of a family member who served during World War II or who witnessed the attack on Pearl Harbor.<\/p>\n

As visitors approached, I would step back. This was Ed\u2019s moment\u2026 it was about him and his history and it was for him and his healing. This was his experience and it was his opportunity to allow hundreds of others to share their respect and honor for something none of us can ever understand and can only imagine.<\/p>\n

Ed was incredibly gracious. He always accepted the hand offered and answered questions as asked. And he was confounded by the attention he received saying \u201cI didn\u2019t do anything\u201d. Yet, he nodded in understanding when I explained, \u201cYou represent an entire generation. You represent this (pointing to Pearl Harbor) and only a few can do that now. You allow us to honor the people we didn\u2019t get to meet. You allow us to help people heal!\u201d<\/p>\n

When visitors heard that there was an actual Pearl Harbor Survivor on the grounds, they sought him out. People of all ages, nationalities, and their families stepped forward to meet him and have their picture taken with him. At times, and without encouragement, children would come up to him and shake his hand! How did they know? What will they remember of this day? Ed was touched by those moments. At times, while he was engaged in conversation, others would ask me questions about him or tell me their story and their connection to Pearl Harbor. One gentleman had a grandfather who went down with the USS Arizona. A man who served post WWII had never been to the museum but had it on his bucket list. This was his lucky day and he was so thrilled to chat with Ed. Two couples from France were on the grounds. They heard a Survivor was there and they looked for him. When the women found him they were overcome with tears. They were trying to express their gratitude for what our soldiers did for them\u2026 they were children but they remember vividly! \u00a0The women went to find their husbands and the four of them couldn\u2019t get close enough and struggled to express their true feelings. They kept telling other bystanders \u201cYou have no idea\u2026!\u201d Though only one of the four spoke some basic English, there was no mistaking her emotions and her desire to share their gratitude. \u00a0I was amazed at their level of awe.<\/p>\n

Ed received so much attention it was quite overwhelming for him. But it was also incredibly profound for us to witness. Ed was intensely engaged! He was given priority status at every turn. He received applause and sincere gratitude from so many! If ever you wonder if there is still good in this world\u2026 yes, there is! \u00a0 \u00a0(The rest of the story is in pt 2)<\/p>\n

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