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<\/a>When an orange is squeezed, it’s juice comes out. Regardless of what squeezed it – the juice is based on the fruit itself. If it’s sour, the juice is sour. If it’s sweet, the juice is sweet. And if it’s rotten, the juice is rotten. Regardless of what squeezed it! \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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People are the same. What comes out when squeezed is what’s waiting inside. The difference is, people blame what squeezed them for how they respond. They justify their reaction to the squeeze by saying it is\u00a0because<\/i>\u00a0of the squeeze.<\/div>\n
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Several years ago, Survivor participant Jerri Manthey, spoke about her time on Survivor. \u00a0She remarked that no one could truly be themselves in the stress of that situation. \u00a0I remember commenting to her through the TV, ” Actually, Jerri, It is your truest, deepest self that is exposed under pressure!”<\/div>\n
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In my nursing career, I have had the pleasure of working over 20 years in ER, ICU, home care and Hospice. \u00a0I have witnessed thousands, of people in very stressful situations. \u00a0I’ve seen many people explode after very little provocation. \u00a0And I’ve seen hundreds of people gracefully walk through what seems like insurmountable stresses. \u00a0 What makes the difference?\u00a0 It’s not what stressed them. \u00a0Nope!\u00a0 It’s what’s inside them that comes out under pressure. \u00a0It’s not what squeezed them that produced the reaction. \u00a0It’s that they got squeezed.<\/div>\n
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Driving is a perfect example. \u00a0An incident occurs, i.e. someone cuts in front of you. \u00a0You know nothing about them. \u00a0You haven’t a clue what their day\/week\/life is like. \u00a0They know nothing about you. Yet, suddenly you are engaged in a battle where both of you are determined to win. There is shouting and cursing and…. \u00a0Ahhh…. there it is… the anger built up inside from something far greater than today’s driving experience comes boiling up, and WOW. \u00a0And both sides will blame the other for their own reaction.<\/div>\n
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Simply put, it’s never about what squeezed you that causes your reaction. \u00a0Remember how Nelson Mandela spoke about his years in prison. \u00a0Or what John McCain shared about his years as a POW?\u00a0 They are amazing examples of being squeezed beyond what most humans could endure.\u00a0 Yet, they responded with grace and courage, peace and encouragement.<\/div>\n
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It’s what is already inside you that comes out when squeezed. \u00a0How do you respond when squeezed? \u00a0Maybe it’s time to explore those reactions.<\/div>\n<\/div>\nShare this:<\/h3>
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